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What causes Erectile Dysfunction when with a woman?
I have absolutely no problem keeping an erection when completely alone with my thoughts or with an adult male/female DVD but when with my girl friend, I lose it. The fear of losing it is part of the problem.
Once, I was with a lady that was so hot for me and very very beautiful, that I lost my erection.
How can I psych myself out to keep it? Like I said, when I am alone, I have no problem.
Maybe a sex therapist could help.
99% of it is in your head and chances are that when your getting with a woman, you’re thinking more of Woodrow than her.
Next time, relax and turn your thoughts entirely to her. It may take a few sessions, but once you train your mind the problem will be gone.
Or, you could watch an adult DVD with your friend and see if you have the same reaction.
Cialis, Levitra or Viagra. Leave your ego at the door and just take it. OMG, cialis turned me into a sex machine!!!! just tell your doc you are having trouble, get a script and presto man of steel!! Also, you will also be able to go a really long time too!
It’s very common. What happens in many cases is the initial performance problem, perhaps caused by anxiety (assuming there is nothing physically wrong), remains as a nagging negative reminder of poor performance. Even if you’re completely comfortable, it doesn’t matter. Fact is, any guy will always feel SOME pressure to satisfy his partner no matter how long you’ve been together. Visualization. . . vivid and emotion packed. . . can help. Over and over, imagine yourself performing exactly how you’d like to. . . with power and ease and confidence. The more realistic you can imagine this, the better. Really get into it. Bring all 5 senses into play in your imagination. At the end, imagine how great you performed. . . how satisfied your partner is. . . and how confident you are. Always give yourself the suggestion that next time (whether in actuality or in your mental performances) you’ll do even better. Do this 2x a day. Once in the morning when you first wake up (before getting out of bed. . . when you’re still 1/2 asleep) and also when you first get into bed at night. Basically this is self-hypnosis. . . and it works. Add additional power by coming up with a phrase that you repeat over and over throughout the day and during the visualizations. Also, check out www. kegelcoach. com and strengthen your pubococcygus muscle which is your sex muscle. If it’s weak, it can definitely affect your sex life. A strong pc mucle can give you firmer erections, stronger orgasms, and more powerful ejaculations which can give any guy more confidence. You can do kegel exercises anywhere, but kegelcoach. com makes it fun like a game. If you’re physically healthy, you simply need to work on your “head. ” I’ve done it myself, so I know how debilitating it can be! Good luck my friend!!!